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Overcoming the Sexual Pressures of Valentine's Day

Dr. Melinda DeSeta on January 24, 2023

Valentine's Day comes with the societal pressure to be coupled up and be sexually active. Here are a few suggestions on how to overcome Valentine’s Day pressures.

Valentine's Day comes with the societal pressure to be coupled up and be sexually active. Here are a few suggestions on how to overcome Valentine’s Day pressures.

Misinformation can get in the way of having pleasurable sex. It's time to set the record straight.

Sex

How Couples with Major Age Gaps Make It Work

Dr. Melinda DeSeta on July 13, 2021

Dating someone of a different age comes with its own challenges. Here are some of the most common ones and how to work with them.

Dating someone of a different age comes with its own challenges. Here are some of the most common ones and how to work with them.

Sex

The Secret to Making Scheduled Sex Work

Dr. Melinda DeSeta on July 6, 2021

Who wants to have sex when they feel it is a task on their to-do list? Here are a few tips from a sex therapist on how to make scheduled sex work.

Who wants to have sex when they feel it is a task on their to-do list? Here are a few tips from a sex therapist on how to make scheduled sex work.

Masturbation may help boost your well-being and improve sex with your partner.

Stress

3 Ways to Increase Your Libido While Decreasing Your Stress

Dr. Melinda DeSeta on March 23, 2021

The number one libido killer is stress. Here are three tips to help you decrease your stress levels while increasing your sex drive.

The number one libido killer is stress. Here are three tips to help you decrease your stress levels while increasing your sex drive.

Every couple experiences sexual complacency at some point. A few tips could help you experience your best sex life.