In Control

Self-Sabotage

Making Your Mind Up

Timothy A Carey Ph.D. on March 7, 2023

A mind at one with itself usually doesn't stop to notice that it is working in sync.

A mind at one with itself usually doesn't stop to notice that it is working in sync.

Teamwork

You Are a Collaboration

Timothy A Carey Ph.D. on February 1, 2023

Inequity is a feature of our global landscape only because those who could change the situation do not desire to do so.

Inequity is a feature of our global landscape only because those who could change the situation do not desire to do so.

Motivation

Before Setting Another Goal, Get to Know the Goals You Have

Timothy A Carey Ph.D. on January 3, 2023

Before you head down another, more fulfilling path, it’s essential to understand and appreciate the one you’re on.

Before you head down another, more fulfilling path, it’s essential to understand and appreciate the one you’re on.

Stress

Do You Have Trouble Letting Go?

Timothy A Carey Ph.D. on December 3, 2022

When there is no reason to hold on to something, it can slip away and have no more direct or visible impact on our lives.

When there is no reason to hold on to something, it can slip away and have no more direct or visible impact on our lives.

Resilience

The Click of Life

Timothy A Carey Ph.D. on November 18, 2022

The click is the heralding of fresh perspectives and the announcing of new insights.

The click is the heralding of fresh perspectives and the announcing of new insights.

Empathy

The Danger of Empathy: The Belief We Know What Others Are Feeling

Timothy A Carey Ph.D. on October 20, 2022

By giving up on empathy, we might begin to relate to each other in more authentic, more intimate, and ultimately more helpful ways.

By giving up on empathy, we might begin to relate to each other in more authentic, more intimate, and ultimately more helpful ways.

Relationships

Are You Helping or Interfering?

Timothy A Carey Ph.D. on September 1, 2022

Helping is only helpful if someone feels they are being helped.

Helping is only helpful if someone feels they are being helped.

Motivation

Actions Don't Speak Louder Than Words

Timothy A Carey Ph.D. on August 1, 2022

The constellation of goals we assemble is our blueprint for living.

The constellation of goals we assemble is our blueprint for living.

Depression

Joy Doesn't Need Despair

Timothy A Carey Ph.D. on June 30, 2022

We feel good when we’re getting what we want, and we feel bad when we can’t get what we want.

We feel good when we’re getting what we want, and we feel bad when we can’t get what we want.

Attention

So, You’d Like to Use Your Brain Better

Timothy A Carey Ph.D. on March 30, 2022

Could you benefit from finding a new perspective on things? It might be easier than you think.

Could you benefit from finding a new perspective on things? It might be easier than you think.

Self-Control

How Well Do You Get Along With Yourself?

Timothy A Carey Ph.D. on March 29, 2022

We have become so good at thinking of ourselves as different bits, we often forget that the bits are all part of a whole.

We have become so good at thinking of ourselves as different bits, we often forget that the bits are all part of a whole.

Anxiety

Worry Can Be a Relentless Teacher

Timothy A Carey Ph.D. on March 24, 2022

The worrying I do and the things I worry about tell me about the person I am and the person I want to be.

The worrying I do and the things I worry about tell me about the person I am and the person I want to be.

Relationships

The Problem With White Supremacy

Timothy A Carey Ph.D. on January 17, 2022

On a level playing field, we can all enjoy the supreme magnificence of which we are capable.

On a level playing field, we can all enjoy the supreme magnificence of which we are capable.

Self-Help

Thinking About Good and Poor Control

Timothy A Carey Ph.D. on January 10, 2022

Controlling is most straightforward when we help the controlling efforts of others.

Controlling is most straightforward when we help the controlling efforts of others.

Motivation

Toward a New Model of Leadership

Timothy A Carey Ph.D. on December 17, 2021

Surely any group will be successful when its members are able to achieve their own goals without preventing others from doing the same.

Surely any group will be successful when its members are able to achieve their own goals without preventing others from doing the same.

Coronavirus Disease 2019

The World’s Greatest Challenge Isn't COVID-19

Timothy A Carey Ph.D. on December 1, 2021

Global calamities can reveal the goals and standards that leaders actually prioritize regardless of what their rhetoric is.

Global calamities can reveal the goals and standards that leaders actually prioritize regardless of what their rhetoric is.

Relationships

When Is Enough Enough?

Timothy A Carey Ph.D. on November 22, 2021

Life is the business of creating and maintaining the world we know in the "just right" states we want it to be in.

Life is the business of creating and maintaining the world we know in the "just right" states we want it to be in.

Resilience

Shall We Dance? The Music That You Move To

Timothy A Carey Ph.D. on August 26, 2021

A Personal Perspective: Keep dancing no matter what the tune. Contented living arises from the ability to stay the course; finding a way to dance to whatever music is playing.

A Personal Perspective: Keep dancing no matter what the tune. Contented living arises from the ability to stay the course; finding a way to dance to whatever music is playing.

Motivation

Why You Don't Have to Worry About Achieving Goals Anymore

Timothy A Carey Ph.D. on July 22, 2021

Failing to achieve a goal often just means another goal is being satisfied instead.

Failing to achieve a goal often just means another goal is being satisfied instead.

Education

Life Is a Limiting Factor

Timothy A Carey Ph.D. on May 31, 2021

Social groups that are characterized by shrinking opportunities for many and simultaneously burgeoning opportunities for a few are precariously imbalanced.

Social groups that are characterized by shrinking opportunities for many and simultaneously burgeoning opportunities for a few are precariously imbalanced.